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A New Beginning

• Being positive or negative are habits of thoughts that have a very strong influence on life .
• Positive and negative acts and thoughts are direction which direction do you choose?
• Positive thinking is expecting , talking and visualising with certainty what you want to achieve and accomplish.
• Reality is a mirror of your thoughts , choose well from what you see in front of the mirror .
• The mind is decision factor in your life , but who decide for the mind?
• A positive attitude brings strength , energy and initiative. To think negatively is like talking a drug that kills your positive attitudes .
• Positive thoughts are not enough , There also need to be positive feeling and positive actions.
• When you say ," I can't " and except the worst, you become weak and unhappy.
• Bring resolute, decisive and courageous in small matters and in big one means being positive.
• You can close your windows and darken your room or you can open the windows and let light in. It is a matter of choice. your mind is your room which you can darken or fill with light.
• Positive thinking and negative thinking are attitudes. They are points of view and show the way people handle their affairs.
• When you stand at the crossroads, one way leads to a desert and the other one to lush meadows. Which way do you choose? clear thoughts produce clear results.
• Positive thinking evokes more energy, more initiative and more happiness.
• Train your mind to think in terms of  'possible' and 'can be done'.
• When you have control over thoughts , you have control over your life .
• Happy thoughts attract happy people into your life.
• Happy thoughts fill your life with happiness.
• When you change your normal thoughts, it is like changing the direction of a train.
• Affair the positive, visualise , think and expect the positive.
• Do not let circumstances influence your thoughts and moods. By rising above them mentally, you will eventually rise above them materially.
• Fill your mind with lights, happiness, hope, felling of security and strength. Soon your life will reflect these quality.

10 Things you must never do.

Do not underestimate yourself:   How can hope to understand anyone else if you do not truly now your own self? Step back, take a hard, objective look. Know your strengths and weakness; work on improving the former and diminishing the letter. Understand you are as good as the best with your own set of handicaps, as we all are.

Do not lead a meaningless life: Do not just cruise along. Set yourself goals so as to measure your life by achievement. Consider the realm of possibilities, aim a little beyond that. Break your goal into smaller targets and get going. Keep reviewing these goals and remember to keep shifting goal posts.

Do not ignore doing the right thing:  Whenever your heart and mind lock in conflict, just do what you consider right, rather than desirable. You will never live to regret it. For this, you must have a clear set of principles, a firm code of ethics that guides your life. This may or may not met societal guidelines, but must be well thought out and weighed in your own estimation of what is good and bad; right and wrong.

Do not get rooted in comfort zones: The easiest thing to do is work out a set of coordinates that create a comfort zone, and to rest within that. But keep creating disruptions that shake thins up a bit and allow you to look and aim beyond the immediate and available. That is he only way to grow. Creative destruction is an art that we must all learn.

Do not be strangers to your spiritual self: Focus on what you wish to tell yourself; listen to what the universe wishes to make you make you aware of. Try meditation and silence; it helps you transcend the self and connect to your spiritual side. It is then that perspectives shift and all questions are answered.

Avoid negativity: Consciously school yourself to think positive. Do not associate with negative people. Make it a habit to remain happy and focused. Cultivate hobbies that keep you engaged and creativity occupied. Do not play blame games that keep the brain young and functioning.

Do not hold grudges: Learn to forgive others and more importantly, yourself. Neither blame nor pity anyone. We all make mistakes; what is important is not to repeat them. Vengeance is a poison that harms the carrier. Grudges make us bitter and stressful. Let go, and move on. Understand and believe that we all meet our just deserts in due course.

Never lose dignity: Be yourself. Do not strut around with borrowed feathers, nor allow yourself to be pulled down to the level of those who play nasty games. Do not push yourself into situations or relationship just because you feel it must be done. Adhere to the diktats of your inner self; maintain your dignity and standards. You do not need to explain yourself to anyone; be your own best critic and judge, responsible for yourself and your circumstances.

Do not ignore your core group: carve space and time for people close to you relationship and friends. These are the people who stand by us in good and bad times, who sustain and cherish our very souls. Do not waste time on parasitic relationship.

Cherish the smaller things: life and love are nothing but a stringing together of moments. It is in the smallest things that we find our most beautiful and sometimes most catastrophic moments. Never ignore the small for the large picture. Take time to appreciate and be grateful for the many little blessing you are surrounded by. It will go a long way in reducing that killer stress and making you a happy person.

             You can never be everything to everyone, so choose your priorities carefully rather than spreading yourself out too thin. This will help you lead a satisfying, Happy life. 

Use a strategy for happiness

We assume that happy and unhappy people are born that way.

But both kinds of people do things that create and reinforce their

moods. Happy people let themselves be happy. Unhappy people

continue doing things that upset them.

What is the first sign of a healthy business? A healthy business

plan. That is the argument of the Strategic Management

Centre, a business consulting firm. They believe every business

must define its purpose and then create a strategy to accomplish

that purpose.

This same approach can be used by people. Define what you

want, then use a strategy to get it.

Ironically, children are better at this than adults. Small children

know when being cranky will get them an ice cream cone.

And they know when being too noisy will get them a cross reaction

from their parents. Children understand that there are

rules and predictable patterns to life, and they use a strategy to

help them get what they want.

Living a happy life as an adult is like trying to get that ice

cream cone as a child. You need to know what you want and use

a strategy to get it. Think about what makes you happy and

what makes you sad, and use this to help you get what you

want.

Happy people do not experience one success after another and

unhappy people, one failure after another. Instead, surveys

show that happy and unhappy people tend to have had very

similar life experiences. The difference is that the average

RULE OF ATTRACTION

Rule of attraction is a powerful system that is believed to make human lives better.

Rule of attraction is an ancient system which is based on the belief that if someone thinks about something strongly, it would eventually turn out to be true for him or her. This whole system relies on your thought process. For instance, if you give space to too many wrong thoughts in your mind, then your life would turn out to be wrong according to those thoughts. If you are right with your thoughts, then your life would also be equally right. In simple words, you are the one who attracts wrong or right things in your life through your thoughts

Scientific Evidence

Even though law of attraction is a system based on beliefs, it has been scientifically proved that positive thoughts would have a positive effect on your physical and mental health. Hence, it can be said that law of attraction is a scientific system. There have been many stories from people in real life who have been able to improve the quality of their lives by practising the law of attraction.

Practising the law of attraction is easier said than done. Controlling your mind and thoughts is one of the most difficult things to do. There are simple techniques which you need to practise regularly to make the law of attraction work for you. Set aside at least 15 minutes everyday for meditation. Meditation helps your mind to cosiness. Once your mind is cosiness, start thinking about all the things you want in life. When you want something, try not to let doubts about it creep into your mind. Initially it may be difficult to control your doubts. But as you keep reinforcing positive thoughts supporting your desires, doubts would eventually stop crossing your mind.

The rule of attraction is the name given to the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results.This belief is based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from "pure energy", and the belief that like energy attracts like energy.One example used by a proponent of the law of attraction is that if a person opened an envelope expecting to see a bill, then the law of attraction would "confirm" those thoughts and contain a bill when opened. A person who decided to instead expect a cheque might, under the same law, find a cheque instead of a bill.

Dependent on technology

Bonding with family and friends decreases alarmingly as we increasingly interface through technology for almost all our emotional and social need.

We need to getting worried when the first place we turn to in distress is social media. why would anyone seek faceless succour and unseen hands of support ,rather than the arms of dear ones? What ever happened to good old bonding with family and friends?

                    Why do people lay bare their emotions on social network site?  One reason could be that the social networks are the easiest way to seek concurrence for your emotions and thoughts without having to explain yourself , answer question your vulnerability .social on line platforms  encourage self-obsession and allow you to with-draw from an interaction whenever you wish to, at the click of a bottom.

                         Indeed technology and increased social interaction enable more complex relationships than those that ever those that ever existed earlier. Previously, you would meet someone interesting and maybe think about them a bit, fantasise and vaguely hope to meet again someday. Temptation was a slave to destiny, and if fate brought you together again, you could think of making your next move. Today temptation enslaves you instead and technology offers sure access to anyone you are tempted to link up with .

                       Concurrently , if technology helps strike up relationship , it also offers an easy  handle to trip these up.one misfired SM'S or email; one flirty text read by a partner, and all hell breaks loose.

Not anybody can   deny the benefits of technology and the ease it has brought to daily interaction and life, from booking holidays and hotel movies and performances , paying bills , bank transactions to securing our health and security .  But   what is worrisome is the way it has taken over our emotional and social lives.

What is scary that most of us are so wired today that we are enslaved to our cell phones .what worried me is that I do not remember any telephone numbers and address by heart anymore .sadly ,I need reminders on my cell , synchronised with my laptop, to remind me of important dates;  what is pathetic is that I text or wish friends on social network site on their birthday , or when I what–saap my lovely person(son ,spouse, partner  folks…) in the next room, rather than  walk across to talk to him. Technology discourage us from  various forms of mental and physical exercise and makes us self-centred.

                    And what was very, very scary was when phone died and suffered severe withdrawal symptoms and depression – winging from a sense of helpless to acute irritability and anger. And worse ,when I got it back in my hand today , I almost sobbed with relief . Must decrease dependence on own cellphone .